Archive for December, 2010

SENIORS OF BARANGAY CHRISTMAS PARTY

December 27, 2010

This year’s activities of the Senior Citizens’ Association of Laging Handa (SCALA) surpassed everyone’s expectations of what the Seniors can do. Spearheaded by the the first Chairman of SCALA Ding Villa, the association successfully registered at the Securities and Exchange Commission by April 15, 2010. On May 11, 2010, the First Bingo-Lunch-Dance was held at the Eco Park at the La Mesa Dam. It was sponsored by the Barangay Laging Handa and held jointly with the Barangay Annual Staff Outing. Soon after, on July 31, 2010, a Second Bingo-Dinner-Dance affair was held at the Casa Pura, sponsored again by the Barangay and the Kagawad for Senior Affairs, Mrs. Binggay Montilla. This December 10, the group held their Third Bingo-Dinner-Dance at the Barangay Basketball Court. The Bingo started at 4:45 p.m., with many of the Seniors showing up before the published time of 4 p.m.

Shown above is the indefatigable Treasurer, Flory SyChangco with his Reception Committee comprised of SCALA Directors Lydia Alvarez, and Fidel Paat Jr.

The attendance was very good, with over 50 people in attendance. Flory announced that SCALA General Membership was now 143 people, up from the 132 people before the Affair.

Tito Pepe, as former Barangay Chairman, Actor and Bingo Master Pepe Pimentel has always been fondly called, wholeheartedly and cheerfully did the Bingo, as he did with other two Bingo affairs. The crowd enjoyed his popular jokes that went with the Bingo numbers. Here he is happily posing with Cora Guiang, the winner of the P1,000 Dinner Voucher from Alfredo’s Steak and Bar Restaurant.

Pictured to the left were Marilyn and Nick Jorge, Silvino Abacan and Joe Bugayong. Nick Jorge was a famous basketball player during the prime of his youth. Now he runs a basketball school to pass on his skills to the youth! On the right are Chinni Carpio, Dr. Nenita Co, Martha Manzana and their friends.

 

 

 

 

 

Can you see that it was still broad daylight when we started this Affair? Here is Marina and her group that got in early. They were the last to leave, and I know because my last picture was of them leaving with big smiles on their faces and presents in their hands! The other group– “Ninfa and the Dancers”– I call them, they are the ones who bring their own Dance Instructor to make sure that none of them are wall flowers the whole night. These women are very quiet. When you see them walking in the streets on a normal day, they walk slowly with stooped backs. But once they get on the dance floor — all hell breaks loose!


I put this picture in so that I could show how the big the crowd was and the decor the Barangay basketball court had that night. Hey, this just half of the whole crowd! It amazes me no end of how everyone could get so wrapped up with the Bingo game. The bingo players’ eyes are glued to the Bingo card as if their life depended on it. Thank God that this was my third Bingo game for the Seniors, and if you want to be strict about it, the first time I had ever organized activities for the elderly. For the first Bingo game, I got money from some of the directors, and I bought canned goods like sardines, some of which I wouldn’t dare give away any more for the third Bingo night. Since I realized that I had to do most of the solicitation of prizes, I decided to use my skills as a former fund raiser and send letters to all the business establishment in the Barangay.

Pictured left wearing a red dress is the current Chairman of the Senior Association. Her name is Nita Nantes. She is 82 years old, and lives in a group of town homes that she owns. She confessed to me that she built these town homes in 1976 with just a prayer and the backing of the bank who gave her a loan. Nita has been a recipient of “Mother of the Year” for Quezon City and several papal awards for her religious and pious life. One of her six children is a priest. He celebrates Mass in her house every Sunday. But Nita walks slowly to Church every day to hear Mass.

On the right, the group is shown doing a line dancing number. There were not enough dance instructors to go around, and everyone wanted to dance. There were also not enough men to dance with. So– we did a few numbers of line dances.

This lady pictured on the right surprised me with her very dance-ballroom-y dress and her high spiked heels!!! She is the type of “manang” you would never think to be the “belle of the ball”.

The whole night was filled with fun and dancing. The Seniors were extremely delighted with the numerous prizes that I was able to solicit from the many restaurants and establishments that dot the periphery of the Barangay. Most of them were gift vouchers for dinners. They came from the following: Alfredo’s Steak House, Cercchio’s Bar and Restaurant, Chilli’s Mexican Restaurant, Estrel’s Cakes, Jollibee’s Restaurant, Little Asia Restaurant, Max Fried Chicken, Red Crab Seafood Restaurant, Romulo’s Bar & Restaurant, Sushi-ya’s Restaurant, Wheatberry’s Restaurant, Yam Cha’s Restaurant. Non-food prizes came from Urban Escape Spa (body massage), Councilor Marvin Rillo (P5,000); Councilor Raquel Malanguen (a desk fan). Cash gifts came from some of the directors that we used to pay for our expenses.

I made a Newsletter to report on this, and when the Seniors opened the door to receive it, their first question was, “When is the next one?”

PARTY FOR THE BARANGAY STAFF

December 25, 2010

Ralph decided we couldn’t turn our backs on the Street Sweepers, the Segregators of Trash, and the Street Police, not since Ralph just left his work end of November. I looked at the passbook to check how much we could spare to give them. We decided to give those who segregated trash P500 each, the rest P1,000 each.

Then, some people sent presents to Ralph and myself. One person sent a 12-inch ensaymada–“the best in the world”, it said. Then another one sent something still wrapped. I decided, that since the last office party was so happy because of the raffle prizes, I would throw in some raffle presents during the party. Ralph timed the party so we had the trash segregators at 3:30 p.m., the Street Sweepers at 4:30 p.m. and the Barangay Police at 5:30 p.m. We served them sandwiches and iced tea. I looked at my fridge: there was a box of chocolates and a box of chocolate cookies. I threw them into my pile of raffle prizes, together with the huge ensaymada. Then I sent Tony to buy more prizes from the grocery store.

I was looking at my cache of pictures. None for the segregators of trash. They were not a photogenic lot. Skinny, toothless men, who had scrubbed for the party, but who still reminded one of those homeless people in Central Park. Last year, they remembered of the nice meal we served them, and of the prizes they got. One man said he got rice, plastic basins, groceries. I didn’t apologize for this year’s meager meal and hardly any prizes. Later, Ralph told the third group that he was just sharing with them whatever little money he got from his “performance bonus,” (P10T), cash gifts from the Mayor (P5T) and other politicians (P2T). We just wanted to tell them that we appreciated their work for the barangay.

The next group was the Street Sweepers. They all put on their green uniform over their clothes. The shirt said “Bilis Walis”, meaning “Fast Sweepers.” They got the usual sandwiches and tea. They came to sing carols.
The new Barangay Captain brought his guitar to accompany the Street Sweepers. When I saw them sweating, I told them to take off their uniform and just use their street clothes. When it came to the portion where they got their P1,000, each of them hugged and kissed Ralph. This was the group that had the most fun, mostly from giggling from the kiss.

I was able to give away the puzzle mat, the kiddie sofa, and Barbie doll I bought for the accountants’ daughters when they came with their mothers on weekends. many years ago. Tony had already come so we distributed some cans of biscuits and groceries.

The Barangay Police group came last. I don’t really know their official name. I know that they number around 30, 15 on each 12-hour shift. They are trained to patrol the streets. Each of them have walkie-talkies and handcuffs. No guns. There is a “motor patrol” that goes around to go around the barangay streets 24 hours a day. There is a desk officer who controls all their movements. These “police” do not earn minimum wage even if they work hard. But they are happy to do work, in the light of so much unemployment.

We had the same format– serve drinks, then sing some Christmas carols. This is how the camera caught them, singing their carols. Then give them their cash gift. This time, I had more prizes– boxes of biscuits, canned goods.

These staff are not considered “the less fortunate” of society, because they have work that will feed their families. The “waste segregators” are fortunate, because they are able to recycle plastics and iron that cannot be used anymore, and get some money from it. Their income is very little, but they are still more fortunate than those who have nothing at all.

After this year, hopefully, Ralph and I can fade into the sunset and stop these parties. Meanwhile, Ralph has to scrub his face doubly hard, after getting kissed by 24 women.

Merry Christmas 2010!!!

OFFICE CHRISTMAS PARTY 2010

December 24, 2010


The Christmas Tree that Ralph made this year was unusual. It was made of clay pots piled up on top of each other to shape a tree. Last year, Ralph used dried leaves to make up the Christmas tree.

Our tradition for our Christmas Party for the office was to hold it on Mom’s birthday on December 20th, just to honor her for putting up the foundation for the business. On December 29, 2008, Mom was all made up, but I decided she should go to the hospital instead because she started feeling bad. In retrospect, I should have let her enjoy her party and should have brought her to the hospital afterwards. That was the year we had the construction of the Knysna in full swing, so we had 50 workers who had missed lunch, knowing there would be lechon served plus lots of other food. When I got back at 8:30 p.m. from the hospital, the workers had cleaned out all the food, leaving me with just a few bones of the lechon and one piece of cake. Even these items had to be zealously kept by the cook, Fely, for me.

A few weeks after Mom’s birthday, on February 5, 2009, Mom passed on to the afterlife. The Christmas Party of 2009 was held on another day. Since we were faced with the debt over the construction of Knysna, we just gave the compulsory 13th month pay, and that was it! I didn’t offer any additional benefits since I knew the ownership was now a shared one.

In November of 2009, the siblings met again to decide who would own which property. So the incomes went to specific persons, and the expat owners named their company informally as “DONITI”– letters from their names.

This Year’s Party was the happiest Christmas party the Office ever had. There were now several owners of the Company, so there were more donors of gifts. Dra. Grace brought her bag of games. Instead of “pin the tail on the donkey”, we had “pin the nose on the Clown.” She also had “draw your face”. She also brought prizes– snacky foodstuff, mostly. The DONITI authorized the purchase of ham for everyone and some prizes. My Newgrange Condotel started to have guests, so I was able to think, yes, I can afford to donate some prizes, too.

Pictured above are Grace, Ralph and me in front, and the accountants Luz,Cheryl, Anna and Anna at the back. The DONITI execute their wishes via the accountants. Grace is a co-owner of the Agustina, and Ralph has been the “soul behind all the buildings.” He was the one who decided to return to the Philippines to help my ageing Mom and Dad to run the business. He gave up his post as a UN Official to take early retirement. (He was 57 years old then.). When we got back, he nagged me to “maximize the value of the property”. He didn’t stop until I demolished each building one by one and rebuild them into what they are now. When I was done, he would landscape the roof gardens. In San Luis, Pampanga, he commuted almost daily from Manila to oversee the renovation of the San Luis house. If I didn’t want to spend on things he thought were essential — split aircons in every room, a generator to supply electricity–Ralph dove into his pocket to buy it himself. In the Baguio property, Ralph used half of his lump sum retirement pay from the UN to reconstruct the house that he built for his mother. Of course, the original house also came from his funds. But the property is officially the Francos.

We didn’t have lechon this year, because lechon costs P5,000, and you can already have that amount as the budget for lunch for 25 people. Here is Merto and Norlie over the coals, so to speak.

We served the children first to make sure they would be fed, but the men came quickly after the women. We normally station the kitchen staff on one side of the table to make sure no one puts too much on their plate.

The Newgrange roof garden is large enough for a crowd of 100 people. We keep the lights dripping from the covered roof the whole year, so that, they can light up the place at night anytime there is a party.

During the presentation portion, we had the workers doing a cha-cha number and Ralph’s secretaries did their own modern dance.

Below are the Household Staff — Nelly and Fely in front, with Liza, Beth and Veron at the back.

Next to them are the Raffle winners Carla, Monching and Sam.

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The highlight of the evening was when the lights were turned down and all the staff, with candles in their hands, each gave me a rose, as a gesture of thanksgiving, while Sam strum his guitar, singing this song, “Handog” (google “Handog” by “Florante”).

Parang kailan lang
Ang mga pangarap ko’y kay hirap abutin
Dahil sa inyo
Narinig ang isip ko at naintindihan
Kaya’t itong awiting aking inaawit
Nais ko’y kayo ang handugan

Parang kailan lang
Halos ako ay magpalimos sa lansangan
Dahil sa inyo
Ang aking tiyan at ang bulsa’y nagkalaman
Nais ko kayong pasalamatan
Kahit man lang isang awitin

Tatanda at lilipas din ako
Nguni’t mayroong awiting
Iiwanan sa inyong ala-ala
Dahil, minsan, tayo’y nagkasama

Parang kailan lang
Halos ako ay magpalimos sa lansangan
Dahil sa inyo
Ang aking tiyan at ang bulsa’y nagkalaman
Nais ko kayong pasalamatan
Kahit man lang isang awitin

Tatanda at lilipas din ako
Nguni’t mayroong awiting
Iiwanan sa inyong ala-ala
Dahil, minsan, tayo’y nagkasama

The translation goes like this:

It seems like a short while ago, it was difficult to reach my dreams
Because of you, I was able to reach my goal
I would like to show my gratitude even with this song

It seems like a short while ago, I came close to begging in the streets
Because of you, my belly and pockets were filled
Therefore this song that I am singing, I would like to dedicate to you

It seems like it was just a short time ago,
they didn’t like to listen to my songs
Because of you, my thoughts were heard and understood
It is because of this that I count you as my trusted friend.

I will grow old and pass,
But I would like to leave this song in memory of you
Because of the one time we were together….

The staff knew they were saying good-bye to my leadership of the company that I had worked hard to put up in the last twelve years.

Christmas in Baguio 2010

December 24, 2010

Baguio House on Christmas

Ralph and I don’t have children and family in the Philippines, so we give parties to Ralph’s brother, Jerry, in Baguio, to the Office Staff in Manila on Mom’s birthday, December 20th of every year, and to the Ralph’s cousins on both his parents’ sides, in the New Year.

Getting Jose to put up the decor

Most of the time, the house is also decorated by the Housekeeper/cook. This year, Ralph decided what she did wasn’t good enough. So he and Jerry took apart what Vilma did and jointly supervised the putting of the decor.

The family of Jerry has now grown. Raquel married an officer in the military, Jess . He turned 48 on the day of the party. They have two daughters. The eldest one, Sabrina, shocked me when she put in her facebook account, “I’m engaged!” I told this to Jerry, and he said he wasn’t aware that anyone was even courting her. She looked very quiet, and when I met her, there was no indication other than the make up on her face, that she would be seriously considering boys in the present.

Raquel's Family

Next daughter is Aprille. April’s husband is Anton, and they have two children, Anelle and Elvin.

Aprille's Family

Aprille works in the government and her husband Anton is an engineer. Anelle is so lady-like, and her younger brother Elvin is so cute! He makes me miss my own grandsons who are in Dublin and Denver, worlds apart from us.

Ralph and I with Celia's children

Celia is in China, and her husband John-john is working in a mine in the Visayas. So Ralph and I posed with Celia’s children, Trano and Diedre.

Trano gave me a song he composed that night,

This is gonna be a very blue Christmas
without you by my side
My past Christmas was all very white
But this Christmas, I’m not by your side.

I promise you this will never be repeated
You are the light of my Christmas tree
You are the Star that guided the three kings to Bethlehem
All I want is you (2x)

All I want is you this Christmas
You’re all I want
You’re the present that I only wish for
From Santa Claus who will come this midnight.

This year we have missed the Old Ones who have passed away — Ralph’s mother “Lola”, Lola’s sister Auntie Celing, Auntie Celing’s husband Doming, and Lola’s former housekeeper for sixty years, Sabel. Sabel’s son, Noel, who was adopted by Auntie Celing, also joins us every year in our Christmas parties. His children are such lovely children. I’m glad he raised them well.

This year, we have new staff in the house — Vilma Mayot (cook), and Tess, housekeeper. Jose, who has been with us for 12 years, was the one who helped in putting up the decor.

Ralph and Gerry sharing a drink and barbeque

Here are Ralph and Jerry, accompanying Jose do the barbeque at the back of the house, and sharing a joke.

Looking at Raquel and the whole group, I wonder, how did the time go so fast? I have images of Raquel and Reuven up in the guava tree, eating guavas as they went. Now Raquel might be a grandmother in a few years, if what her daughter said was right, that she was “engaged”.